Everyone in a long-term relationship will eventually lament the lack of spontaneity and excitement in a relationship. It’s only natural that some of the excitement and butterflies fades after the infatuation period of a relationship is over. However, this doesn’t have to mark the end of excitement in your relationship. Here are some tips to help keep the exciting fire going in your relationship.
- Take a romantic picnic with picnic fare you’ve made together. It doesn’t have to be fancy– you can whip up some tuna salad and deviled eggs and call it a day. You’ll love spending time together in the open air.
- Make a “greatest hits” album of your relationship. No one really has just “one song.” What song was playing when you first kissed? What song do you both love? Did you go see a concert together? Pick songs from your favorite movies or TV shows, too.
- Take a bubble bath together. This is the perfect, romantic way to unwind from a long day.
- Make a scavenger hunt for your significant other that leads all around the house. You’ll have fun thinking up the clues and they’ll love trying to figure them out! Have it end with a special surprise, like a bag of their favorite candy or a new piece of jewelery. Too mushy for you? Have the hunt end with a bottle of their favorite liquor.
- Send them a real letter while you’re away on a business trip or visiting family. At the very least, send a postcard.
- If you have to stop somewhere on the way home, bring home something that your significant other would love, like ice cream or a movie they’ve been talking about recently



